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Sunday, July 19th, 2009 04:44 pm
So I finally e-mailed that guy back.  I told him that I am a firm believer in the past being in the past, but I couldn't forget what he did to me.  There was some other stuff, but that's not important.  Anyway, he e-mailed back and said he didn't blame me if I hated him and for what it's worth, he apologized.  He said he wouldn't blame me if I didn't want to be friends with him anymore.  I told him that I accepted his apology and that I didn't hate him.  It takes a lot of energy to hate someone, and I just don't want to waste that kind of energy on him.  I did say that we couldn't be more than friends, ever.  I think he got the message.
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Tuesday, July 14th, 2009 08:17 pm
So I joined facebook and friended some people I went to high school with.  That's all great, cause it's great to catch up with some of these people and see what they've been up to.

The drawback is that some of them had friended an ex of mine.  Guess what, today he friended me.  Now would be a good time to tell you that this guy was abusive and after an arguement threw me into unfinished lockers at school.  His punishment for this was a day suspension from school.  Now he's e-mailed me cause he wants to get back in touch.

He can't figure out why we hated each other as teenagers!  Couldn't be because he abused me and I was freaking scared of him, could it!  He told me he wants to put the past in the past and be friends again.  Then he told me he's been married three times and that all of his wives have cheated on him.  Gee, I'm shocked.

I'm not comfortable with this guy being on my facebook friends page, but I'll live with it  I just don't know what to do about him wanting to get back in touch.  You don't get over something tramatic like what I went through.
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