The drawbacks of facebook

[sinjinh1]

So I joined facebook and friended some people I went to high school with.  That's all great, cause it's great to catch up with some of these people and see what they've been up to.

The drawback is that some of them had friended an ex of mine.  Guess what, today he friended me.  Now would be a good time to tell you that this guy was abusive and after an arguement threw me into unfinished lockers at school.  His punishment for this was a day suspension from school.  Now he's e-mailed me cause he wants to get back in touch.

He can't figure out why we hated each other as teenagers!  Couldn't be because he abused me and I was freaking scared of him, could it!  He told me he wants to put the past in the past and be friends again.  Then he told me he's been married three times and that all of his wives have cheated on him.  Gee, I'm shocked.

I'm not comfortable with this guy being on my facebook friends page, but I'll live with it  I just don't know what to do about him wanting to get back in touch.  You don't get over something tramatic like what I went through.

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[sinjinh1.livejournal.com]

I thought about telling him why. I also thought about ignoring him. Of course I was also hoping he wouldn't notice I was on facebook, oh well.